That doesn’t mean it’s been easy. I’m only two months post divorce (officially). We were pretty well separated when I moved out November 1.
Moving on with your own life when someone else was so closely a part of that life for so long – it’s the hardest thing I’ve ever been faced with. It’s harder than it was to come out, decide to transition, and start living full time as a woman. 😳
The divorce post is brewing. It’s a hard one to write so I’ve only let it brew in my head. It hasn’t found it’s way to keyboard yet.
Having said that, I’m doing okay. I went to a craft beer fest and hung out with acquaintances. I chatted with random strangers. I didn’t let being gendered as a man bother me (thanks 🍺 ), even though you could clearly see what little feminine curves I have going for me.
I’m open to making friends and letting people into my life. I still love my job. I’ve almost finished a book. I’m learning Final Cut Pro X. I’m making an effort at relationship with my brothers and my parents.
And I absolutely love every minute that I get to spend with my kids. Despite all they’ve been through, they still love me and they accept me for who I am. 💕
A girl really can’t ask for more right now.
I hope you are doing well. 🍻