A change is coming.

Kate the Audi in Black and White

Tomorrow. Part one happens tomorrow.

I tried blonde. Now I’m going to try something different. I’m excited. If it turns out – amazeballs. If it doesn’t? I can try something else.

I’m also settling into my self.


Hi. I’m T.

But I’m also settling into my self. I know who I am. I am a creative, positive, authentic woman. It took 39 years to grab hold of that and I’m not letting go.

I am choosing to surround myself with positive, uplifting friends. I am choosing to act on opportunities that present themselves instead of freaking out and letting them pass right by.


Have you met Kate? I love her to death! The Adventures of T & Kate are coming soon in some sort of format. Ha!

Kate the Audi. She also answers to Katia.

All joking aside. I knew I needed something different for traveling. For the first time in my life, I was in a position to choose the car I wanted. For me. Not because anyone else thought it was cool. Not because it made me special just by owning it. Not because it had to serve some greater purpose. No. I bought Kate because she’s the car I wanted. I didn’t even know I wanted an Audi A3 TDI. I had chosen something else and did “one last search.” She popped up and it was love at first sight.

Back on the rails (and off the crazy train).

Terrible Ozzy Osbourne reference, I know.

I’ve been on hormone replacement therapy since November 4, 2020. My brain is clear. My outlook is positive. I live each day as myself. My body is filling out where it’s supposed to and the dysphoria lessens each day.

I’ve seen other opportunities come my way and I’ve seized them too. They may not work out, but I would have never known had I not grabbed them.

I have a new job which I love. I’m working on a real, income producing side hustle with a great community of support. I get to see my kids as often as I can afford to.

I get to see my kids
as often as I can afford to.

I know hard times are coming. That’s how life works.

In this moment, I am focused on living authentically, focusing on the positive, and making the absolute most of this second chance I have to live as myself.

her name is T Jay

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