No friends.

iPhone photo of sunshine through grass

Stop me if you’ve heard this one before, “40-year-old recently out transgender women signs up to do network marketing for newly launched lifestyle and athleisure brand with no network.” Why lead with that? The important thing here is not that I signed up to do network marketing. Don’t get me wrong, I am genuinely in […]

Thoughts on my upbringing.

A view of the West Fork Valley on a cloudy fall day

Or thoughts on “thought in ‘the church.’” You’ll read this again if you get through this post. I want it here at the beginning too, because it sets the stage for the madness that follows. 😆 This post is something new for me. I had thoughts as I laid down and instead of just brushing […]

I’m on YouTube.

What have I done? 😂 If you read the last post, you read these words. I was able to read them without crying for a YouTube video. Canon M50. Check. EF-M 22mm Lens. Check. Ring Light. Check. Now all I need is a better mic for better audio. Look at me create content. I was […]

Words. From the heart.

Fall leaves make me happy.

The little boy couldn’t understand why she was different.  The middle school boy didn’t understand why she didn’t fit in.  The high school boy truly believed she was a mistake and destined for hell.  The college boy’s eyes were opened to the fact that she was transgender.  She wrestled with herself, wanting so desperately to […]

The Change. Pt 1.

Call her pumpkin spice

Manifesting. Positive Energy. Faith. I’m not sure how it all works together, but it does. I had someone turn down buying my truck on Tuesday to “think about it.” I asked for the truck to sell this week to someone who needed it. That happened today. 😮 Someone mentioned auburn hair. I thought it sounded […]

A change is coming.

Kate the Audi in Black and White

Tomorrow. Part one happens tomorrow.

I tried blonde. Now I’m going to try something different. I’m excited. If it turns out – amazeballs. If it doesn’t? I can try something else.

Life. Is. Good. :)

Her name is T Jay


It’s good. If I didn’t have down times I wouldn’t be human.

I’m sitting here in my comfy chair, listening to music, typing on my laptop and I am content.


through something difficult.

I am transgender

I am not choosing my gender.

I am choosing to show the world, on the outside, who I have always been on the inside.

Image. Watermarked.

I don’t watermark my photos that often. It’s been quite some time since the last one I felt deserved it. This image – I’m quite proud of it. Hence, the watermark. I’m definitely going to have this one printed and framed. I’m still riding life’s roller coaster and it felt good to forget it all […]